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The next question related to relationship between women and men.
Dear Dr,
What women love in men. What women looking for in a man when they choose a man
for partner or just for having fun with.
Sincerely,
(name withheld for privacy reason)
This is one of those eternal questions men ask themselves in the, usually, vain
attempt to understand women. However, the answer is most of the time simple and
plain to see. Women love in men a series of physical traits that are largely
common and determined at genetic level and also certain features that vary from
one person to another.
The physical side is rather simple since physical beauty is hard-coded in our
genes. The tall, handsome man with a deep voice and a style that is practically
oozing virility is guaranteed to be a hit with most women. His physical side is
good. However, if he says something stupid every time he opens his trap, then
it’s quite clear he would have to make do with women who either do not notice or
do not care.
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But almost any lack of lustre on the physical side can be made up by another
skill. Just as the basic physical attraction is almost always guided by the same
principles, environment shapes people into different patterns.
Some women learn to appreciate men who know how to carry an intelligent
conversation and have good manners. Others like men who can cook and are willing
to wash the dishes. Others are not interested in anything but sex with as many
interesting partners as they can get their hands on.
Also some others are not interested in anything but sex, however they picky
when they choose sex partners. They want men with large or larger than average
size cock. These women believe it: The bigger is better!
Finally, some ladies like quiet, well-bred men who will provide for their
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Quite frankly, women like in men about the same things men like in women and for
the same reasons, although women do emphasize the personal touch and the social
skills. However, they tend to go about it in a different manner, which men find
confusing. There is only one thing that men should know. Women preferences are
different when they looking for partner to be their spouse or husband, or when
they looking for men to be their lover or casual sex partner.
We ask a couple of women what they looking for in men.
The first is
Jenny. She is 25, works in a major corporation's main office (UK)
She said: “I am a
bit of a player in my own way. Being far too busy, and too lazy as well, to
invest time and energy in a stable relationship means that I am forced to resort
to bars for the odd pick up that makes my week-end brighter. The only thing I’m
looking for in men is the right tool size. I am familiar with the “Size doesn’t
matter” philosophy, but I have to disagree. If a man is not properly endowed,
how could he satisfy me? I understand that some women may be satisfied by less
endowed men and I also know that other women are not that interested in sex, but
this is not the case with me. I love sex and I need a man with a big penis in
bed, not some 5-inch. Sure he has to know how to use it, but first he’s
got to have something to show upfront.”
The second lady is Suzy Q. She is 33 years old, single mother from Australia.
She said: “Six years have passed since my
divorce from George and now that everything is past me I can say that his poor
sexual performance was one of the causes that led to the breakdown of our
marriage. George simply wasn’t good enough in bed, although he was a kind
husband and a good provider. At the start of our marriage I thought I could
overlook his being less than average in size and that his strong points would
make up for this loss. Well, after a couple of years I had to face the facts: I
was very horny and unsatisfied. His penis was too small for my needs and he came
too quickly. I tried to talk to him about it, but he was too much of a prude to
like such conversations. We drifted apart and one day we found out there was no
point in staying tied to each other. I think we could have worked things out,
but in the end he refused to face the problem and do something about it.”
The first lady Jenny wants well endowed guys only. The second one, Suzy wants
"good enough" guy in her bed. The size count for her too, but for her the size
is not everything. You can learn everything how to become a man women beg to have sex
with.
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