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Dear Sir,
I'm an 19 year old guy who often ejaculates during night before I go sleep.
It really help me to get sleepy, and I fall into sleep easily after.
I know sex better then masturbation, but I am just 19 year old and kind of
shy.... I've had sex twice, and came much too quickly each time.
Could this be causing my premature ejaculation problem? What should I
do?
Thanks in advance,
J. J.
Hello J. J.
Try being a little patient with yourself. It takes time for some men to
learn how to control their ejaculations. As you become more sexually
experienced, you will learn more control, and you'll probably find your
premature-ejaculation problem gone.
Also, many sexologist states that, the opposite of what you fear is
probably true. They think that those young men who have nocturnal emissions may
have fewer fears about their sexuality than their peers do (even while asleep),
and therefore are less likely to have sexual problems, such as premature
ejaculation. I am agree with this too.
So stop worrying, try to find a nice girls, and give yourself time to gain
more sexual experience. Don't need to be rush things, you have time.
Also there is a website called Penis Health.
They are offering solution for premature ejaculation with penis exercise
program. Your penis might enlarge, but you will have full control over in other
aspect as when to ejaculate. If I were you, I would visit that website.
By the way, you are not alone. Your problem is very common problem. I
talked about premature ejaculation
before, I have a related post in this website at
next..
Greetings,
Peter
Solution for Small Penis & Premature
Ejaculation
Dear Doc,
I won't come, but I can come. It sound complicated... I am a
26-year-old man. I can ejaculate when I masturbate, but I can't when I have sex
with my girlfriend. I can be hard inside her for hours. It just won't come!
I do not have any problem with oral sex. What's causing my vaginal
penetration's problem?
— K. F.
Dear K. F.
Probably many of our female website visitors think that, your girlfriend
is a lucky girl. A lot of women want to find a man, who can stay hard for
hours...
In research conducted by two famed sexologists, some of the factors causing an
inability to ejaculate into the vagina were identified as: anti-sexual
upbringing; viewing the vagina as "dirty"; dislike of the sexual partner;
homosexuality; fear of causing pregnancy; and fear of being interrupted by
children or others during sex, possibly bringing back traumatic memories of
being caught in a sex act by one's parents.
As you can see, a number of different nonphysical factors can be involved,
all of which fall under the categories
of anxiety, guilt and hostility. If not being able to ejaculate into a woman's
vagina is bothering you or causing problems, an experienced lover with a lot of
passion might help.
If that doesn't work, than you have to find a a qualified sex therapist. A
good therapist could probably help you to overcome whatever is causing your
difficulty.
Good luck,
Peter
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