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My wife and I like swingers sex stories and thinking and talking about swinging a lot. However she is NOT inclined to "open" our marriage. She has said that she is worried that I might find "better" and leave her, or, vice versa.

There is only one thing I would request of you. Almost all of sex stories on the net, in any and every site or collection I have seen, fails to describe the sensations and feelings the lady feels upon insertion and or coitus within her pelvis or vagina.

Do you know of any author or authoress that is "published" that goes into such detail? Upon asking my wife she says that "I just feel full," and cannot be convinced to relate more details to me. It makes me feel as though I am too small to fulfill her needs, though she insists otherwise. I am, shamefully, very modest in penile size at 5 inches, and about one inch thick. But I have this burning curiosity regarding this subject.

Thank You your help.

Thanks for the email. We love to hear from your readers. It makes me feel like we are actually providing a service to all of you guys out there.

Please don't consider me too deviant. I had to smile at the last part of your note. I believe size is one thing the technique is the other thing that counts in love making. If you are smaller or bigger, either way you should know what to do with your penis. If your penis is big enough to take her breath a way in sex, you still should know how to use it. Size is not everything. However I can not give "first handed" answer, because as a male I can't explain from experience the differences, making love with well endowed or with smaller men.

However I know a lady very well and I asked her help. Her name is Joan. She had have lot of men in her life. Please read her answer and if it isn't enough, you can contact her by sending a email to   JJJ3313260 [ @ ] aol.com (with out space and the [ ] keyboard characters). Please read her answer at next.

Over the years in my role I have received so many penis size related question, from guys expressing concern about their less-than-gigantic cock, and their ability to give pleasure to a woman. Let me share some biological facts with you. A woman's pussy IS NOT a "space" or "cavity" that is only "filled" when a cock is large. Rather, it is a "potential space or cavity," one that has no extra space until something is inserted. It can pleasantly accommodate a simple finger, and yet during child birth can open large enough to allow passage of an entire baby's head and body. In other words, it is HIGHLY elastic! Sure, when a larger cock is playing in there, the vagina expands and exposes more nerve endings that could be stimulated to bring her lot of pleasure.

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Also the experience of accommodating that larger cock can be a mental stimulation to her, thus making it easier for her to reach pleasure-filled orgasms. So definitely the size is count, but being well endowed is not enough.

Much of a woman's pleasure comes from stimulation of her clit (no extra large cock needed here), and pressure against her pubs by a man who is giving her an energetic "screw" (no extra large cock needed here either). Oral stimulation of her pussy, clit, nipples, breasts and other sensitive parts of her body also often are an important part of her pleasure. The man need to know what to do with her body! It has been said that the brain is the body's best sex organ and the saying is RIGHT! Much of a woman's sexual stimulation begins in the brain... from reading erotica with her lover, from erotic talk with her lover, from the environment where they are making love, from sharing special erotic activities, etc.

Many women think about the potential pleasures of feeling "full" from having an extra long or thick cock within them. Many women thoroughly enjoy such variations occasionally (one of the reason couples often start to swing). However, many woman actually CAN'T accommodate an extra long cock. A fair number of women simply have vaginas which are too shallow to accommodate excess length. In those cases, the guy with extra long cocks are as they say "out of luck."

Generally a woman can accommodate a cock that is somewhat longer than the depth of their pussy, because even when fully erect, the human male cock tends to be spongy, and compresses somewhat against the firm back wall of a lady's vagina. If the probing cock is not too long or too "bony," we gals often enjoy the feeling of having that cock "beat" against the back walls of our pussies.

I enjoy that occasionally, but, even I have had to turn down a few guys whose cock was too long for my comfort. In my case, if that long cock is not too thick, I invite the guy to enter me anal-y. Personally, I enjoy anal sex.  I can take a cock MUCH deeper into that nether hole, and I enjoy the feeling!

So your question is what does a pussy feel like when it is being entered, probed and "filled" with an large cock? Well, it obviously feels good. That "good" feeling comes from the friction of the cock rubbing within me. If I am too dry, the friction can cause discomfort rather than pleasure. If my pussy is too well lubricated, the friction is often reduced. In those cases, the actual intercourse can be less enjoyable, but that is often overcome by my mental stimulation knowing how turned-on I am, because I being screwed by a big cock. If that cock is small that friction can come from a probing tongue, a probing finger, a small or a large dildo.

A guy needs to be sensitive to what the lady is feeling. Does she want slow, leisurely screwing so the nerve endings are repeatedly caressed within her body until her orgasm is finally released, or does she want to be screwed hard so that the nerve endings in her pubs and clit are aggressively invigorated until they cry out for release through an orgasm. I have intimately enjoyed more than several different cocks within my pussy. So, I guess I am speaking from experience. A cock of ANY size can produce pleasure in my body, if the man who owns it is truly alert to what turns me on, and at what level of turn-on my body is at on any given moment. On more than one occasion, I have been leisurely enjoying the feel of a cock within me, only to have the man unexpectedly lean forward and give one of my nipples a firm but gentle nibble. That has often sent me over the edge.

Stop worrying about the size of your cock. If it really does bothering you, you can try to do something about it, but if it is big enough for your wife I wouldn't bother. You should focus more on the size of your desire to make your wife happy. Talk with her. Learn what gives her special pleasure, what seems to enhance her femininity.  If you are unable to give her that special pleasure educate yourself. Visit sexologist (face to face) or visit Sex Guide related websites and learn it how to make any women cum!

And here at the end, yes the size is count but the size is not everything. Any man can please any women with  6.5 - 7.5 inches in length and 5.5 - 6.5 inches in girth size cock.  However the man who owns it should have an excellent love making technique.

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What a difference 1-3 inches would make? Of course I talking about penis size.

It is confidence. It's the feature 9 out of 10 women find sexiest in a man. With a larger, fuller penis, you can't help but display confidence. Even other men will envy you. Who wants to make love to a man with a small penis, anyway? When it comes to penises, everyone knows that bigger is always better.
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